Money is for Living - Not for Legacy

Money Is for Living, Not for Legacy

In today’s fast-paced, hyper-materialistic world, we often forget a simple truth: Money is not everything. It is essential, yes — to live, to meet needs, to offer some comfort. But beyond a certain point, it’s not about survival. It becomes about status. It becomes about showcasing.

But let’s pause and reflect — no matter how much you accumulate, you leave this world empty-handed. Whether you're a millionaire or a humble worker, the final destination is the same. The Rolls Royce, the designer watches, the sprawling villas — none accompany you beyond this life.

There’s a dangerous trend growing, especially in India, where the younger generation seems to treat their parents not with reverence but with expectation. How much did they save? What will I inherit? They forget the lakhs (or even crores) their parents spent on raising them — with no expectation of return. The food, the education, the sacrifices — none of it was billed or recorded, but every rupee was a token of love.

And yet, when parents reach old age, needing support, many find themselves emotionally or physically abandoned — parked in ‘retirement homes’ while their children chase dreams, gadgets, and greed. It's not that these homes are bad; they offer care. But the intent behind sending parents there is what stings. Not all, but many do it to distance themselves from responsibility, while still eyeing the savings their parents tucked away over a lifetime.

This behavior is not just ungrateful — it’s diabolic. Parents are not ATMs. They are not liabilities. And the narrative that “they lived their life, now it’s our turn” is a selfish and hollow one.

We must ask: What are we chasing? Are we becoming richer humans or just richer individuals?

The true wealth lies not in the car you drive but in the hearts that remember your kindness. Not in the home you own, but in the relationships you nurture. Empathy is a richer currency than any banknote.

So before you ask what your parents left behind for you — ask yourself, what have I given back to them? Love? Respect? Time?

Money is for living, not for hoarding or inheriting. Live well. Let others live well. And above all, honour the people who helped you live at all.